I'm excited to introduce my brother-in-law, Valden Paes—an exceptional person with a captivating story. Valden's childhood in Amherst, NY during the 80s holds some great memories. Fast forward to 2011, he made a significant move with his family to Dallas, TX. In this interview, Valden opens up about his experiences as a global executive and navigating the nuances of raising kids in the United States.
Expat Bio:
Born in: Itajuba, Minas Gerais - Brazil
Total Years Living Abroad: 14 years
Cities & Countries: Itajuba, Barra Mansa, Taubate, Sao Paulo (Brazil), Amherst, NY and Dallas, TX (USA)
Current City: Dallas, TX
Lives with: Wife, daughter and son Current Company/Title: DTCC, Head of Business Transformation
Hobbies: PC Gaming, Camping and Traveling
What drove you to become an expat?
My job responsibilities expanded to include North America, and I became responsible for a large team based in Dallas, TX.
What have been your main learnings working with multicultural teams?
It amplified my awareness and acceptance of different communication and thinking styles, which were instrumental in making me a better leader (and person). Lastly, it can be extremely fun!
How do you maintain a strong connection to your cultural heritage?
Most of our friends are Brazilian, which inherently helps maintain our cultural norms. Our main focus is on my younger son who was born and is being raised in the USA; We have him enrolled in Portuguese classes, encourage lots of play dates with other kids originally from Brazil, and make an effort to visit Brazil twice a year. We are proud that his favorite song is from a Brazilian musician (Adriana Clacanhoto - Fico assim sem voce).
How do you feel this experience has impacted and will continue to impact your children's future?
Living abroad provides greater opportunities for education, exposure, and experiences - which are the key ingredients for growth.
What have been your main challenges as an expat in the USA?
For my wife, it was certainly the language barrier, and for myself making deep personal relationships. The kids are thriving:-)
What do you like the most about living in Dallas?
The honest, low-key, and humble aspects of the culture, low-context communication style, safety, and Infrastructure (Hospitals, Airports, Highways, and Restaurants). Having a great international airport makes Dallas a great gateway to explore the world.
What advice would you offer to executives contemplating an international assignment?
Be aware of the trade-offs. Write the pros and cons down, and reflect if you are willing to let go of certain things to attain whatever is in the pros column. Expectation management is super important!
Valden, thanks for sharing your experiences and insights!
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